Tonight was the first night that I have ever gotten to play Santa. After the traditional soup and sandwich dinner at my brother's house, we put the kids to bed and I stayed awhile delaying a late-night, potentially futile, hunt for petroleum, as my car's gas light had just come on as I arrived in Durham County. He asked would I help and I said I would, so we went down the street to the Grandparent's house and into the garage to retrieve several boxes of Biddy Baby paraphernalia and the new gas-powered 4-wheeler for S. We brought them back to the house and took the baby doll furniture into the house for assembly to begin, and a spirit of Christmas that I haven't felt all season flooded through me. I realized that it really is for the kids, and that not having any kids actively present in my day-to-day life has kept the spirit partly at bay. Tonight it seemed so different, being back here in this town. Although it is strange to me now, there is still a homeyness to the place that is unmistakable. I can feel my pulse slow a bit when I cross into N.C., and even more when the Durham County line is crossed. While playing Santa tonight, I thought, "I can do this... I like doing this," and thus I put to rest some of the nagging doubts that I have had lately about my suitability and desire for fatherhood, marriage, settling etc. I can put those thoughts, fears, and worries away now - and it feels good to do so.
I hope you all have, had, and are having a Merry Christmas. I hope to see or talk to each of you very soon.
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